Step 7: Talking to Kids About Evacuation

Age-Appropriate Conversations

For Young Children (3-7):

What to say:

• "We practice leaving the house quickly so we know what to do if there's ever a fire."

• "Fire is dangerous, so we don't stay inside. We go outside fast."

• "If you hear the smoke alarm, it's telling us to leave right away."

How to teach:

• Use simple, calm language

• Practice as a game

• Praise their efforts

• Don't add scary details

• Answer questions honestly but simply

Key lessons:

• Their escape route

• Crawl low in smoke

• Touch doors first

• Go to meeting point

• Don't hide

For Older Children (8-12):

What to say:

• "Fires are rare, but we want to be ready just in case."

• "Knowing what to do helps us stay calm."

• "You're old enough to help keep our family safe."

How to teach:

• More detailed explanation

• Let them help plan

• Explain the "why" behind rules

• Give them responsibility

• Build their confidence

Key lessons:

• Both escape routes

• How to help younger siblings (if safe)

• How to call 911

• Stop, Drop, and Roll

• What to do if separated

For Teens:

What to say:

• "This might seem silly, but please take it seriously."

• "In an emergency, you might be the one who has to lead."

• "I trust you to make good decisions."

How to teach:

• Treat them as partners

• Discuss real scenarios

• Ask their input on the plan

• Give them leadership roles

• Trust their capabilities

Key lessons:

• Full understanding of all escape routes

• Ability to help others

• First aid basics

• How to assess safety

• When to call 911

Addressing Fear

If a child is scared:

Don't:

• Dismiss their fear: "Don't be silly, that won't happen"

• Add to fear: "You should be scared, fires are terrible"

• Over-explain dangers

Do:

• Acknowledge feelings: "It's okay to feel a little worried"

• Empower them: "Practicing helps us feel braver"

• Focus on skills: "You know exactly what to do"

• Provide comfort: "Mom and Dad will help you"

• Be confident: "Our family is prepared"

If a child has nightmares or excessive anxiety:

• Back off on drills (maybe too frequent or scary)

• Consult with pediatrician or counselor

• Focus on daytime, calm practice only

• Emphasize how safe they are

• Consider if something else is causing anxiety